{"id":1228,"date":"2009-11-01T13:26:00","date_gmt":"2009-11-01T17:26:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blogs.northcountrypublicradio.org\/inbox\/2009\/11\/01\/what-do-we-fear-each-other-who-are-we-boring-to-death-same-thing\/"},"modified":"2009-11-01T13:26:00","modified_gmt":"2009-11-01T17:26:00","slug":"what-do-we-fear-each-other-who-are-we-boring-to-death-same-thing","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogs.northcountrypublicradio.org\/inbox\/2009\/11\/01\/what-do-we-fear-each-other-who-are-we-boring-to-death-same-thing\/","title":{"rendered":"What do we fear? Each other. Who are we boring to death? Same thing."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I feel like that guy with his finger in the dike &#8212; and increasingly I&#8217;d like to stick my fingers in my ears.<\/p>\n<p>Reading the blog posts the last 72 hours here at the In Box has been disheartening.  Really, honestly, depressing.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s not that we all disagree.   That&#8217;s the cool part.<\/p>\n<p>I think there are legitimate differences of opinion out there about how our country (and our congressional district) should move forward.<\/p>\n<p>Activists on the right are truly frightened of what they perceive as government over-reaching, oppressive taxation, and an agenda that doesn&#8217;t reflect their traditional values.<\/p>\n<p>Activists on the left are terrified that many of what they perceive as their liberties &#8212; the right to choose (or not choose) an abortion, the right to marry whom they like &#8212; are imperiled. <\/p>\n<p>Those are deeply entrenched positions, granted.  It&#8217;s incredibly hard, as Republican Dede Scozzafava learned, to stake out a middle ground.<\/p>\n<p>But really.  Those of us posting here aren&#8217;t politicians.  We have the luxury of talking openly, playing with ideas, listening to others, responding in complex ways.<\/p>\n<p>But some of the posts to this site, from the right and left, are predictable, thoughtless, and nonsensical.  Not to mention hateful. <\/p>\n<p>The idea that conservatives are part of an &#8220;American taliban&#8221;?  That&#8217;s nuts, plain and simple. <\/p>\n<p>And the idea that liberals are &#8220;Marxists&#8221; or &#8220;Maoists&#8221;?  Please. <\/p>\n<p>Sheesh.  It&#8217;s embarrassing.   It&#8217;s not even remotely thought-provoking.  You know what it is?  It&#8217;s boring.<\/p>\n<p>There are a kajillion websites out there where you can go to flame your perceived enemies.  You can echo-chamber yourselves until you&#8217;re blue in the face.<\/p>\n<p>But next time you come to the In-Box, before you hit Enter&#8230;stop.<\/p>\n<p>Slow down.  Think for a second about the sources of your information.  Think about the other side&#8217;s point of view. <\/p>\n<p>Consider that these are people whose kids go to the same schools as yours, who attend the same churches, who (yes) share conversation at their public radio station&#8217;s website. <\/p>\n<p>They are your fellow citizens, and your neighbors.  If they&#8217;ve come to think differently from yourself, that&#8217;s kind of interesting, right? <\/p>\n<p>What does it mean?  Is there anything in their argument that got you thinking?<\/p>\n<p>Above all else stop with the name calling.  It&#8217;s the ultimate sign of a callow argument.  If you think NCPR is bad, or liberal, or milk-toasty, make an argument.<\/p>\n<p>If you think Sarah Palin is the wicked witch, make your case.  Don&#8217;t just grab for the same tired talking points.<\/p>\n<p>Think Frank Rich&#8217;s argument is kookoo?  Wrestle with it.  Debunk it with facts.<\/p>\n<p>Cite errors, cite judgments or interpretations you disagree with.  But spare the profanity and the schoolyard razzing.<\/p>\n<p>Remember.  The best way to prove that your side is smart and thoughtful and convincing is to be smart and thoughtful and convincing&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I feel like that guy with his finger in the dike &#8212; and increasingly I&#8217;d [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":12,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.northcountrypublicradio.org\/inbox\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1228"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.northcountrypublicradio.org\/inbox\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.northcountrypublicradio.org\/inbox\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.northcountrypublicradio.org\/inbox\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/12"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.northcountrypublicradio.org\/inbox\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1228"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.northcountrypublicradio.org\/inbox\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1228\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.northcountrypublicradio.org\/inbox\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1228"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.northcountrypublicradio.org\/inbox\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1228"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.northcountrypublicradio.org\/inbox\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1228"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}